Hi, I’m Jenni.
I Am the Queen of Intimacy
I am leading a movement for women with the audacity to embrace their right to big love, great sex and a pleasure full life. Of course, if you had told me even just a few years ago that I would be leading a revolution to help women reclaim their bodies, their sexuality and their PLEASURE… I would have said you were nuts.
There could hardly be a more unlikely leader. I was born into a very conservative Baptist family in a small town in West Texas. Some of my very earliest memories involve being viciously shamed for my innate, innocent and natural curiosity about bodies and sex.
I was alienated from my father after my parents divorced when I was one. I was taught that men leave, can’t be trusted and that they would all cheat if given the chance.
I was sexually abused by a very close family member. I grew up believing that my entire worth resided in my body and the only way I knew how to get the attention I was desperately seeking was through sex. This set me up for decades of promiscuity, addiction, betrayal and divorce.
I Am a Survivor of Betrayal Trauma
My first D-Day (aka Discovery Day) was in November 2012. It was a doozy. There were police involved. But you know what? I didn’t even think about leaving. Not for a second. I knew he was a sex addict, but I didn’t know what that meant. I had no idea how, or who, to even ask for help. Even though I had been in therapy for years, it was not the specific help I needed for this.
I spent the next two-and-a-half years fumbling around in the dark, drinking heavily and in denial about how sick my ex was. In March of 2015, I had another D-Day, and at this point I was ready to face the reality of what was happening in my marriage. In December of 2015, we finally had a formal therapeutic disclosure that lasted for two hours. In January 2016, I filed for divorce.
That year before I filed, and the year after that, were the darkest years of my life. The trauma caused by his betrayal left me even further disillusioned about men and disconnected from my body. However, those very dark and devastating years set me on a path to finally do the work of reclaiming and rediscovering me.
Those years were the rich, fertile soil for learning how to become the love of my own life.
During those months, I learned the power of waking up every morning and choosing to be committed to me.
My true transformation came in those dark moments when I wanted to go back (and tried to several times), but slowly learned how to do the deep, inner work that set me free from my past and set me up to become the woman I am today.
I Am a Comeback Queen
I have created a thriving business as a coach and mentor for smart, successful women who desire to create conscious intimate connections. I have helped hundreds of women reconnect with themselves, their bodies and their beloveds.
I earned a Masters in Spiritual Formation so that I can awaken women to their God-given birthright of sexual freedom.
I have become a thought leader in the field of betrayal trauma, and my podcast, Beauty After Betrayal, has helped thousands of women heal with hope and rise.
ALSO – I have never been happier.
I am now married to the most beautiful, sexy, kind, generous, and successful man. My boys adore him. We live in a beautiful home and I wake up every day surrounded by love and beauty. Our marriage is a true, intimate partnership to which we are deeply committed – every day.
For real – my life is like a vision board. Yours can be one, too. I can show you the way. I am here to show you how to create everyday intimacy, rediscover your sexuality, and embrace your right to a pleasure full life.
If you’d like to know more about the ways I work with clients, please check out my Work With Me page.
I look forward to connecting intimately with you.
Ready to learn how to work with me?
More About Jenni
Jenni Rochelle is the Queen of Intimacy. As a coach and mentor for smart, successful women who desire to create conscious intimate connections, Jenni has helped hundreds of women reconnect with themselves, their bodies and their beloveds.
With a Masters in Spiritual Formation, she awakens women to their birthright of sexual freedom and, as a survivor of abuse, Jenni is also a thought leader in the field of betrayal trauma. Her podcast, Beauty After Betrayal, has helped thousands of women heal with hope and rise.
Inspired by her clients and informed by her own journey, Jenni’s work is focused on mentoring high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women to get out of their heads and into their bodies, in order to shift their relationship to pleasure, sex and intimacy.
Jenni is a certified life coach trained according to the Multi-Dimensional Partner Trauma Model (MPTM) developed by the Association of Partners of Sex Addiction Trauma Specialists (APSATS).
Jenni is also a poet, a wife, a boy mom and a mystic who loves tattoos, butter, coffee, bacon, traveling and pugs. She is happily and healthfully married, and having the hottest sex and most spectacular orgasms of her life – in her 50s.