Hi, I’m Jenni.
I am the founder of the Beauty After Betrayal™ community. My goal was to create an online home for women healing from betrayal trauma who are ready to become the love of their own lives. Women are ready to reclaim their peace, their power, their lives and, most importantly, their right to a beautiful life. This work…this community…this calling…is one I never saw coming.
My first D-Day (aka Discovery Day aka the day I discovered my ex was a sex addict) was in November 2012. It was a doozy. There were police involved. But you know what? I didn’t even think about leaving. Not for a second. I knew he was a sex addict, but I didn’t know what that meant. I had no idea how, or who, to even ask for help. Even though I had been in therapy for years, it was not the specific help I needed for this.
I spent the next two-and-a-half years fumbling around in the dark, drinking heavily and in denial about how sick my ex was. In March of 2015, I had another D-Day, and at this point I was ready to face the reality of what was happening in my marriage. In December of 2015, we finally had a formal therapeutic disclosure that lasted for two hours. In January 2016, I filed for divorce.
That year before I filed, and the year after that, were the darkest years of my life. The trauma caused by his betrayal left me even further disillusioned about men and disconnected from my body. However, those very dark and devastating years set me on a path to finally do the work of reclaiming and rediscovering me.
Those years were the rich, fertile soil for learning how to become the love of my own life.
During those months, I learned the power of waking up every morning and choosing to be committed to me.
My true transformation came in those dark moments when I wanted to go back (and tried to several times), but slowly learned how to do the deep, inner work that set me free from my past and set me up to become the woman I am today.
I have created a thriving, online community of smart, successful women who desire to create conscious intimate connections. I have helped hundreds of women reconnect and rediscover themselves.
I have become a thought leader in the field of betrayal trauma, and my podcast, Beauty After Betrayal, has helped thousands of women heal with hope and rise.
ALSO – I have never been happier.
I am now married to the most beautiful, sexy, kind, generous, and successful man. My boys adore him. We live in a beautiful home and I wake up every day surrounded by love and beauty. Our marriage is a true, intimate partnership to which we are deeply committed – every day.
For real – my life is like a vision board. Yours can be one, too. I created this community to show you the way.
Ready to become the love of your own life?
More About Jenni
Jenni Rochelle is the founder of the Beauty After Betrayal™ community, which has helped hundreds of women reconnect with themselves, their bodies and their beloveds.
With a Masters in Spiritual Formation, she awakens women to their birthright of personal freedom. Jenni is also a thought leader in the field of betrayal trauma. Her podcast, Beauty After Betrayal, has helped thousands of women heal with hope and rise.
Inspired by her clients and informed by her own journey, Jenni’s work is focused on mentoring high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women to get out of their heads and into their bodies, in order to shift their relationships.
Jenni is a certified life coach trained according to the Multi-Dimensional Partner Trauma Model (MPTM) developed by the Association of Partners of Sex Addiction Trauma Specialists (APSATS).
Jenni is also a poet, a wife, a boy mom and a mystic who loves tattoos, butter, coffee, bacon, traveling and pugs. She is happily and healthfully married having met and married the man of her dreams in her 50s.