On this week’s episode of Beauty After Betrayal™ Podcast, we dive into the topic of (dun, dun, duuunn) dating again after betrayal.
Wherever you are in your journey with betrayal, you too (yes, you!) can have a big, beautiful life after everything you’ve gone through.
You don’t have to settle…not on a partner, not on yourself, and not on your dreams.
There’s always more love for you.
In this episode, I specifically talk about what I did to prepare myself to date again, and how it ultimately led to me meeting my amazing husband Jeff.
Once I was finally ready to put myself out there again, I wrote the following description on my Bumble dating profile:
“Warm-hearted, emotionally intelligent, free-spirited mom of 3 who loves yoga, hiking, Wilco, and rollercoasters. Looking for a fellow foodie to share adventures, belly laughs and soulful conversations.”
I met Jeff less than 2 weeks later. I like to think of what I wrote as my true love spell where I choose every word intentionally. Each one reflected what was important to me, in calling in the person I wanted to share my life with. And every one of my core values were contained within that description.
So how did I get myself to this place where I was ready to date again and be in partnership again??
With time, intention, self-compassion, clarity, boundaries, values, standards, and leaning into the work I needed to do to break my relationship patterns, nurture my childhood wounds, and move past my fears, doubts and myths about falling in love again. In other words:
I focused fully on ME.
I became the love of my own life.
Then (and only then) I called in my person. My Jeff.
Tune in as I talk through my own personal journey of love and healing, and how it was the inspiration for my 6-month private coaching program –
Before you can really start creating amazing relationships, you have to do this work on yourself. Embarking on this journey back to YOU will make you happier, whether you’re single or in a relationship. It will create such vastly positive change in your life. So let’s set you up for success. You’re so worth it!
Only 3 spots left!