Healing Beauty Group Coaching
Women Healing From Betrayal Need the Power of Sisterhood.
According to Brené Brown, “We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness and affection.”
The is the reason why Sisterhood is such a super healing power for those healing from betrayal trauma. Group coaching offers you the opportunity to show up and be seen, heard and witnessed by other women who know exactly how you feel…because they are healing from betrayal trauma, too.
Most people in your life don’t really know how you feel. Not your mom or your sister or your girlfriends.
Certainly not your person who betrayed you.
Sure, they all love you and do their best to support you, but it’s not the same.
There is nothing more healing than to be able to share your story openly with another woman who has been there.
Also, Sisterhood offers you all the other elements that are so essential to your healing – safety, self-regulation, support, strategy and spirituality.
You can literally get all of that from Sisterhood, and one of the best ways to get the Sisterhood you need is through a group coaching program just for women who have been through what you’ve been through.
I don’t know where I would be today without the women’s groups that I have been blessed to be a part of.
See that photo full of smiling faces above? That was taken on my wedding day and those amazing women in the photo are my Dreamgirls, as we like to call each other. They are the extraordinary, resilient, beautiful and badass ladies who were in my own group coaching program. (Note: The name Dreamgirls comes from a group coaching program created by Gaelyn Rae Emerson.)
I can’t talk about how much all these women mean to me without crying!
Being seen, loved and witnessed by women in the same place as you is one of the single most healing experiences you can have. Women have gathered together in circles for centuries and yet, so many of us have lost touch with that ancient practice. Regardless of the particularities of the betrayal, almost all the clients I work with express feeling isolated…even before discovering the betrayal.
That’s why Healing Beauty Group Coaching may be exactly what you need right now.
Healing Beauty Group Coaching is for the woman who is in the “early” stages of healing from betrayal trauma. While there is no typical timeline for this healing, generally speaking, you are six months or less from discovering your partner’s infidelity. However, this term “early” is more characterized by your daily life experiences than any set period of time.
Group coaching may be right for you if you answer “yes” to one or more of the following:
- Has your partner recently committed a betrayal?
- Have you recently found out additional incidents of infidelity?
- Do you find that you are experiencing frequent triggers, anxiety, helplessness or rage?
- Are you struggling to stop searching for more evidence of infidelity?
- Have you noticed that you are constantly (or frequently) fixated on the betrayer and their recovery?
Just so we are on the same page, whether or how your partner betrayed you gets to be determined by you. Meaning, betrayal could mean having one or more affairs (physical or emotional), using pornography, voyeurism, exhibitionism, online hook-ups, strippers, prostitutes… You get to decide what betrayal means to you no matter how the betrayer tries to rationalize or minimize their behavior…no matter how much the betrayer or others in your life make you feel crazy for feeling that way.
You’re not crazy.
You are having an appropriate reaction to a terrible situation.
One of the many reasons why you feel crazy is because you have most likely experienced gaslighting, deception and emotional abuse. These are almost always present in relationships where there has been ongoing or frequent betrayal. They are necessary for the betrayer to maintain their secret life. Depending on where they are in their own journey, they could still be actively engaging in these behaviors. Identifying when these are happening to us is extremely difficult and yet, until you can understand what gaslighting is and be able to recognize when it is happening, you will struggle to make lasting changes in your relationship.
This is why group support is so critical at this stage. You need other women to affirm that you are not crazy… that they experience the same things.
Healing Beauty Group Coaching is the antidote to feeling crazy. I can’t make any promises, but almost all women report feeling greatly relieved after just one session. This is because of the power of hearing another woman describe that exact feeling, thought or behavior that you have been too ashamed or scared to admit.
Healing Beauty Group Coaching is more affordable than (and is the perfect compliment to) your individual therapy, couple’s therapy or both. Having said that, this is no time for you question whether you ought to invest in your own healing. This is a season, and like all seasons, it will pass. From my experience, both personal and professional, the women who move on from their betrayal to reclaim fulfilling and meaningful lives are the ones who have been committed to investing in their own healing…regardless of what happens with their partner or marriage.
Ready to get started? Fan-freaking-tastic!
Check out this flyer for details and then book your free call to sign up!
P.S. I know you’re scared. So I totally get it if you’re not quite ready to get on the phone with me. Maybe hearing what some of my past and current clients have to say will help. You can read all that juicy goodness on my Testimonials page 🙂 Take all the time you need. I’ll be here.
Jenni Rochelle is leading a movement for women who have the audacity to live a bold, beautiful and sexy life by finding Beauty After Betrayal™. Jenni is a certified life coach for women who are ready to heal from betrayal trauma by focusing on themselves and becoming the love of their own life.
Jenni has been trained by the Association of Partners of Sex Addiction Trauma Specialists. She holds a Master of Arts in Spiritual Formation from the Episcopal Seminary of the Southwest.
Jenni is also a poet, a wife, a mom and a mystic who loves butter, coffee, bacon, traveling and pugs. Most importantly, Jenni is a survivor of betrayal trauma herself. So, she gets it.