
As a coach and mentor for smart, successful women who desire to create conscious intimate connections with themselves, their bodies and their beloveds, I have helped hundreds of women reconnect with themselves and partners.
As as spiritual director with a Masters in Spiritual Formation, I awaken women to their birthright of sexual freedom and, as a survivor of abuse and betrayal, I am a thought leader in the field of betrayal trauma.
The Beauty After Betrayal™ podcast is my labor of love and has helped thousands of women heal with hope and rise. My guests and I will inspire you, share our stories and our best tools so that you can claim your comeback moment and embrace your right big love, great sex and a pleasureful life.
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Episode 21: Why Sexy Matters (aka Why I’m Obsessed with Sex)
This week’s episode of Beauty After Betrayal™ Podcast could be subtitled “Why I’m So Obsessed with Sex”. Besides the obvious reasons that it’s fun and feels good (!), sex is an important aspect to the work that I do with women who are healing from betrayal trauma. The...
Episode 20: Heartbreak, Outrage & Empowering Women: A Love/Hate Letter to Texas
In light of the heartbreaking recent legislation governing women’s bodies in Texas, I dedicate this episode of the Beauty After Betrayal™ Podcast to women everywhere. When I admitted last week on social media that I had been scream singing & sobbing all day after...
Episode 19: Meet Adell Bridges
This week I’m talking with the amazing inspirational yoga teacher, wellness expert and author Adell Bridges. Yoga might be outside of the topics I usually talk about, but I can tell you for certain that I would not have survived my experience with betrayal trauma...
Episode 18: Should I Stay or Should I Go
Who’s ready to talk about WHY WE STAY in relationships after betrayal? Sweet! Because that’s what I’m diving into on the latest episode of the Beauty After Betrayal™ Podcast. You can access or download it now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google! I love to talk about...
Episode 17: Meet Gaelyn Rae Emerson
This episode is a juicy one! Gaelyn Rae Emerson is a relational trauma recovery coach with advanced training in couples relationships, divorce recovery, problematic sexual behavior and sex addiction induced trauma. Gaelyn and I both trained under the Association of...
Episode 16: Meet Jeff
This is the one you have been waiting for! My sweet, sexy husband Jeff makes his debut appearance on the Beauty After Betrayal™ Podcast! This was the first time that I’ve had someone LIVE in the studio with me, and I have to admit that it was weirdly intimate for me!...
Episode 15: The Big Fat Fear Episode
Okay, sisters. This is the episode where I ask you to name your fears, look them straight in the eyes, and do the thing anyway ~ whatever the thing is that you are afraid to do! Join me as I go down the list of the most commonly occurring fears that I hear from my...
Episode 14: Why MORE Matters
When I say to you that it is okay - even necessary - to give yourself permission to want more, how does that make you feel in your body? Do you soften and open to receive? Or do you immediately go into self-doubt and self-judgment and contract? I make up that it’s the...
Episode 13: Meet Dr. Alex
One of my goals for this podcast was to share with listeners the wisdom of what I refer to as “my choir of angels”, meaning the amazing team of healers that I have relied on during my own healing and personal growth journey. Dr. Alex is most certainly one of my...
Episode 12: Meet Christine Arylo
Oh my goddess, I am so excited for you to meet my guest Christine Arylo, I don’t even know where to begin!!! Christine has been, and continues to be, one of the most profound coaches and mentors on my personal and professional journey. She taught me how to truly...
Episode 11: Meet Shann Davis
Shann Davis is a sex addiction and trauma specialist who lived through trauma and betrayal and now runs a ministry for other women. Shann's path is a path of faith - there is no shame, only grace and redemption. She met her ex-husband at 14, started dating at 15, and...
Episode 10: Sexual Healing – How to Have Healthy Sex After Betrayal
I’m curious how many of you identified with Daphne in Bridgerton when she realized she’d been duped by her husband about sex? Nobody (i.e. her mom) had ever talked to her about sex. So Simon was able to manipulate her into believing that their sex life was “normal.”...